My first gamer girl friend was, in reality, my guildie gamer guy friend.

It was not only me who thought that, however- the rest of my raid group also thought he was a she for the entire year or more (I found out later). It probably did not help I was referring to Aisha as a “her” and “she.” I would not have minded if it were not for the fact that I shared girl talk with him for most of that year.

He later told me that he thought my conversations seemed to imply that he was a girl, so he wanted to correct me…which is how I found out.